its a fact that once you have loved, you will be hurt. so you have to be prepared and expect the worst of all scenarios. be ready for the consequences that you may go through, its just either something that you will be thankful of or something that you will regret for the rest of your life… it is really true that you should never love a person more than you love yourself. for once you have loved more than or as much as you loved yourself, you will lose respect for your own self and might be the most stupid person that anyone could think of…. take my words from it, for i have been that person once… and will never be happening again.. so let go when you need to let go…hold on when you need to hold on but never ever push yourself to the limit..dont let yourself be abused or be taken advantage… maintain the word respect in you, for that it makes women separate from toys…..